Please do not assume that because I am fat that I think less of myself!
Do not assume that because I know I am fat that for some reason I also think that I am ugly.
Don’t assume that because I am fat that I will settle for just anyone who will give me attention.
Do not make the assumption that because I have a weight issue that must automatically mean I have low self esteem.
Do not make the assumption that because I am over weight that it means I don’t love or like myself.
Don’t think that because of my weight I am easy!

I am a fat women, this I know.
With that being said I want you to know:
I LOVE MYSELF! Not for what I look like but for who I am as a women!
Yes I may have issues, but none are related to my weight.
Am I comfortable in my skin, No…But does it mean I hate myself…NO!
I am a STRONG women, with a creative soul.
I have ideas and goals that I put into action.
I do NOT settle and if you can’t do for me what I need I can move on at anytime, Because I am INDEPENDENT!
I don’t NEED a man to make me feel beautiful, I can do that all on my own.
I do NOT need to put trashy photos of myself anywhere to gain attention, My beautiful face can do that all on it’s own.
I do not NEED the praise of others, the only praise I need is from myself.
I can take care of myself with out needing to rely on someone else to do it for me.
I am fearless, loud, opinionated and mouthy….call me a bitch I don’t care because I am women hear me roar!
I do not seek out attention from others because I need to feel worthy.
My life is NOT about my weight, It’s about growing as a human and becoming the best person I can be.

If people continue to make these assumptions about me I just may have to remove you, because people like you bring me down and I don’t need to be heading down…been there, done that, bought that t-shirt and threw it in the trash with the rest of the garbage!
Remember this the next time you approach me or say something to me, because if you don’t it may be your last time in my presence.